Should you tell your friends and family you are a nudist?

FOR ME-ABSOLUTELY! NO QUESTION ABOUT IT.

FOR YOU-IT MIGHT BE DIFFERENT

I am not the type that “hides”. I am open and communicative. What you see is what you get. I am also the type of person who expresses how I feel. I grew up having to keep secrets, and I am a firm believer that secrets keep you “separate” and “disconnected”. It would have been impossible (for me at least) to hide it from my family, especially my mother. My mother will not admit it, but she is very psychic (like me). She had a dream the very same weekend I went to the nudist resort for the first time (without me telling her). She told me she saw me naked in the driveway. I had to laugh. I certainly couldnt hide anything from her. My mother also made me promise not to tell my brothers, but i did anyway. One was horrified, but he got over it. I think my mother thought if I told my brothers it would wear off on them.

In the late 90’s, I found out through a family friend (that I confided in) that my aunt and uncle (my dad’s sister), were nudists. My aunt and uncle had already passed away by then. I was surprised. Apparently, it was a big secret in their family too. I was swarn to secrecy by my mother not to tell our relatives that I was a nudist, so I didn’t. Later I found out that my parents KNEW my aunt and uncle were nudists.

Within the last year or so, I told my cousins in Israel. They were quite surprised, and I am pretty sure they didn’t hold it against me (at least I hope not).

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