4. May 2008 by admin.

REBOUND RELATIONSHIPS

with Crumb Cake Lovers aka Rebound Lovers

If you are in a relationship with someone, and you are suspecting that you might be the victim of a rebound relationship,  OY VEY! 

I like to call rebound relationships with rebound lovers Crumb Cake Lovers, because they want you there to pick up the pieces. They just don’t seem to have it together, and they are very emotional. They want someone to take care of them. They stick to you like glue. In order to forget the other person they were involved with they jump blindly into another relationship  before they are emotionally ready without considering the other person and whether or not they are even compatible with them. Then they suddenly wake up from their rebound relationship, and you are left devistated.

Signs of a Rebound Relationship

He/she talks constantly about the other person.

Their relationship ended within the last 4 months.

You find them sitting in the corner crying.

They call constantly.

They compare you to their ex lover.

You visit their home, and there is hardly any furniture in there, or their home is vanilla with no pictures on the walls, etc, because they just don’t care.

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4. May 2008 by admin.

SHOULD YOU TELL YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY

I am not the type that “hides”. I am open and communicative. What you see is what you get. I am also the type of person who expresses how she feels. It would have been impossible (for me at least) to hide it from my family, especially my mother. My mother had a dream the very same weekend I went to the nudist resort for the first time (without my telling her). She said she saw me naked in the driveway. I had to laugh. I certainly couldnt hide anything from her. My mother also made me promise not to tell my brothers, but i did anyway. One was horrified, but he got over it. I think my mother thought if I told my brothers it would wear off on them.

In the late 90’s, I found out through a family friend (that I confided in) that my aunt and uncle (my dad’s sister), were nudists. My aunt and uncle had already passed away by then. I was surprised. Apparently, it was a big secret in their family too. I was swarn to secrecy by my mother not to tell our relatives that I was a nudist, so I didn’t. Later I found out that my parents KNEW my aunt and uncle were nudists.

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